I learned an important lesson the other day. I was chatting with a client about gym workouts and how it can be such a struggle to find the motivation to get to the gym, and I asked, “Is there another activity that you would enjoy more?” We talked about the idea of working out and going to the gym vs. going for a walk or bike ride, and how going to the gym can have negative feelings associated while we may not recognize other activities as acceptable ways to exercise our bodies.
Consider the common phrases “I need to work out” and “I need to go to the gym”. We don’t often express excitement about these activities and we use words that indicate this is a chore, but when we talk about going for a bike ride or going to play volleyball with friends we usually feel anticipation and joy.
When we say “workout” or “the gym” certain thoughts and feelings may spring to mind:
CHORE, bummer, no fun, so hard, too much time, dread, frustration
But when we talk about activities like going for a walk or bike ride, playing a game of volleyball, or playing badminton in the yard other more positive images may spring to mind:
JOY, fun, time with friends / family, play, freedom, happiness
Some people do love going to the gym, but if you find that negative thoughts are deterring you from getting the exercise your body needs, consider whether or not the gym is the right solution for you.
As a runner I have many people ask me if I think everyone should run. While I very much enjoy running and I love watching and helping others discover a passion for running, I don’t believe it is the right activity for everyone. I believe you should do whatever activity YOU enjoy whether it be running, walking, hiking, yoga, biking, spinning, CrossFit, basketball, volleyball, Zumba, tennis, or WHATEVER, because it is the joy in YOUR activity that will keep you engaged and active.
Find YOUR passion and get active!